When we bought the tug we originally planned to do the Great Loop in it and sell it when we were done moving back to the sailboat. About the time we were coming back from the Bahamas we realized how little many of the boats down there actually sailed, we were running out of time and would have to skip the Canadian canals, and that we really liked doing the rivers. We also knew we wanted to do the Down East Loop and maybe even the Inside Passage to Alaska with it one summer which would not be ideal in a sailboat. So we decided to put our sailboat that was in storage up for sale and keep the tug. For better or worse the sailboat sold really quick which made things easy. Unfortunately over the last three summers we have not made the time to use the tug as much as we would have liked as it seems that all our kids activities have kept us pretty busy only allowing us to put around 75-100hrs of engine time a year on it.
I have been fascinated with circumnavigation since I was a kid. But it never seemed possible or something that I might be able to do until I found the world of YouTube sailors maybe ten-twelve years ago. Once I saw them doing it and found groups like the Oyster Around the World Rally and the World Arc I knew it was something I really wanted to do. It took a bit of talking but I got Amy to agree to the idea of trying to do it one day. Now that both of my parents have died and my kids are almost out of the house I realized there are not that many more one days so we sat down and put a date on when we wanted to leave. The key was to balance our youth/health, my in-laws health/needs, our kids needs/weddings/grand kids, and the time/money equation. As you can imagine there are a lot of conflicting priorities there but January of 2028 is what we came up with for a date we wanted to leave for that trip. This is basically a long way of saying while we still want to do all of the adventures we planned with the tug. However, we feel like many of those can be done between or while balancing the other life events and maybe its best to do the circumnavigation now and then come back to those smaller adventures closer to home later.With all of that said I officially signed with a broker today to sell the tug and start focusing our time on learning the sailboat we bought last year for the circumnavigation. I'll miss the tug. It's been a very reliable, easy, and a comfortable boat for us. I hope we can find as nice of a boat once again when it's time to sell the sailboat and buy the boat for the next adventure.Monday, April 13, 2026
Its time to sell the tug
Sunday, April 12, 2026
The Neglicted Blog
So where do I start?
Seems I last talked about photography so I'll start there. I've been neglecting my photography goal (imagine that) of getting out taking pictures then actually looking at them to pick a few to post each week. For anyone that knows me since closing the photography studio about 20yrs ago I have not used a camera much and worse yet when I do, I don't take the next step to actually look at the fruits of my efforts. This year I wanted to challenge myself to do more. I started out strong on that mission over here but fell off after about week seven. Hopefully with spring emerging I can get myself motivated to get out more with the camera and back to actively posting. Oddly it seems maintaining hobbies is just as hard in retirement as during one's working years. There always seems to be other stuff that needs to be done first... or maybe I just have too many interests? Either way for a brief moment I'm actually feeling caught up and like there may actually be some time to do something I want to vs what I have to. I'm off to find some pictures to post then maybe tonight I'll get back to that giant lego set I got as a birthday present that's been sitting half done for a while now :)
Sunday, January 18, 2026
Dusting off my 85 1.2
This is going to be a tough choice. The 85 reminded me how sharp it is and while a bit heavier and slightly bigger I'm not sure there is a huge difference between the two lenses other than focal length. The only difference is that all of these images were shot at an aperture of 1.2 vs the 1.8 of the 135 lens. I guess I should have tried using it at 1.8 to judge the focus fall off as having shot at 1.2 at first look clearly drops off much quicker.
I think next I'm going to shoot some indoor subjects that don't move in an attempt to directly compare the two. At the moment I'm leaning toward the 135 but really want to convince myself it's based on the merits vs a shinny new toy.
Saturday, January 17, 2026
Photographing a couple of my favorite subjects today
I have to say based on my first use of it I really like the focal length and the pictures look really good! I hope to get out using it every day this week and really compare the two to see if its really a good fit or just one of those things that we all think would be nice to have in the back of our heads. Either way my goal is to finally make a decision and maybe some additional room on my desk ;) So keep an eye out for some more posts/pictures this week. Note: All of these are with the 135.
Sunday, December 21, 2025
Boat yard pictures
Friday, December 19, 2025
Finally got my batteries charged and started the process of getting the boat ready for shrink-wrapping
Thursday, December 11, 2025
Goals for next year
It seems the answer when we talk about it as a family right now is we just don't know. For now we are still marching towards the circumnavigation goal with the plan to leave with the World Arc in January of 2028. For the moment the boy still says he is coming with us and the girl is 100% sure that she will not be coming with us. For now it seems that we have a lot of options for adventures next year and while none of them are bad some do seem more exciting than others. I look forward to seeing what we choose!
Tuesday, December 09, 2025
Finally finished winterizing the sail boat
It turns out I had left the ECU fuse on for the engines. This is the engine computer. It seems that it's always running and does eat some power which was enough to kill those batteries over the period of 13 days with no power. I've never had engines this new before so it was not even on my radar to know to turn those off when I left the boat. Lesson learned and I probably should be turning them off when I leave the boat for more than a week going forward.
The house bank was a different story and I'm still not sure I have that solved but after talking with the guy that designed the system for my boat I think I've got some good direction to try when I get back to MD. The first day I was there I went about winterizing the water maker. Once I was done with that I moved the heater into the main salon while I was doing other stuff (mainly reading up on the batteries and chargers) as it was about 35 degrees outside. The first thing I tried was to plug a normal battery charger in and attempt to bring the house bank up from 7 -12% depending on the battery to at least 15% thinking that they were below the min cutoff for the charger to recognize them for safe charging. For some reason one battery did charge but it only charged to 53% and quit. The rest just kept popping the remote battery switches. Well I got one of them as high as 20% the charger would attempt to kick on then then shut off and the safety switch would once again pop. What I've learned is that as everything on the boat runs though the chargers/inverters they were working to charge my starting batteries, managing the power the heater was drawing, as well as the power from the battery charger. The power was being provided by a 50amp cable that is then spilt to two 30amp outlets going into the boat. When I looked at the load I could not figure out why the units were showing 25% not thinking it was the heater/aux battery charger I had borrowed. His suggestion was to get more power to the boat thinking the chargers were starved of power thus unable to start the charging process. As I'm probably not going to be starting the generator while the boat is in the yard, though it is an interesting thought to run a garden hose into the sea strainer while somehow holding it there ensuring the generator gets the cooling water it needs. I think instead I'm going to try charging up one battery at a time with nothing else running on the boat. Hopefully the power provided will support this more limited method as I have seen the chargers pull almost 200amps while charging.
I was pretty frustrated when I left on Friday having not had success with getting the house bank charged over the 3 days I had been at the yard. Then adding to that frustration as I was trying to just turn everything off with the intent of coming back one more time in two weeks to get the house bank charged up I could not even figure that out. Seems even when I flipped all of the breakers and the master power knob to the off position the boat still would not completely shut off. When I left I was more than mildly mad/frustrated.
Before leaving I thought about the training we had got on the boat and decided to reach out to those guys. They then put me in touch with the guy that designed the electrical system. I learned they had hid a 12v battery in one of the heads that is in place to ensure an even 12v power flow. Seems some of the CZone stuff would glitch from time to time without really consistent power and this was the solution. Thus no complete power cut off. Seems their thought was the boat would always have enough solar to keep the CZone and Mastervolt system running. They did not plan for folks winterizing boats, inside storage, or long gray winter days :(
On a good note as I was trying to devise a method to get my mainsail off the deck of the boat one of guys in the yard offered me use of their craine. At 35ft it was just long enough to reach the where the sail was sitting on the deck of the boat. With it I was able to lower it to one those airport type tugs the yard has then drive that over to my truck where it took three of use to slide it in. Next stop will be my favorite sailmaker in OH.. Hopefully he is equipped to deal with this big heavy thing!
Monday, November 17, 2025
Photoclass.. Creating mood.
What's your favorate?
Monday, November 10, 2025
Sailboat Winterization - Did I destroy our water makers membrane?
Thursday, October 30, 2025
Another busy month went by
The Tug was the first to come out. It's now winterized and sitting in a barn which will hopefully keep it warm and protected. I've started taking all of our stuff off of it and begun the long process of getting it cleaned and shined up with hopes of listing it for sale this spring. Unfortunately there is still a lot cleaning and a few small projects to take care of before I can do that which of course include redoing the teak, oiling the wood, lots of scrubbing and polishing trying to get her looking her best for the potential new owners. I've heard the boat market is slow right now so I'm assuming we may get to enjoy her on the Great Lakes much of next summer. I would love to take her up to the North Channel for a month but am not sure how that will workout with Max's schedule and having the other boat that we need to learn to use as well?
In between playing with water toys we have been going to as many of Max's tennis matches as we can this season. It's his Senior year and has been fun seeing how much he has improved from when he started tennis last year.
While we have very much planned for it, it still seems strange to think we will be empty nesters this time next year. I've heard that between birth and the age of 18 is when one gets to spend 80% of time they get with their kids so I'm going to make sure I enjoy it while I can.
On that note we have been continuing our college visits. This month we went to check out Western Michigan University, Michigan State, and Hillsdale. The only schools we have not visited are University of Toledo, Ferris, and Eastern Michigan. Two of those he will do as a field trip in school and with his sister going to Ferris I'm not sure he has much interest in following her footsteps. He has worked hard to get good grades over the years and with some effort during the application process should be able to choose from any of the schools he wants.At this point he is thinking he wants to be a doctor and is looking at Pre-Med programs. His second thought is something with engineering but he has not found anybody doing fun stuff in the real world that has excited him about that. So we are simply encouraging him to pick a school that offers a lot of choices in majors should he want to make a change after taking a few classes in the subject.
As I write this he is just now starting to fill out a few college applications. It will be interesting to see if he is too late for scholarships and placements has I'm seeing a lot of friends with seniors posting various collage acceptances and scholarships awarded in my Facebook feed recently.
Personally I'm still hoping he will take a break/gap year or more after his first year of school to join us on our circumnavigation. It will be interesting to see where he ends up and what he decides to do?
Annabelle turned 21 a few days ago. She is back doing the Disney College program again this semester working as a lifeguard this time and asked us to come down to celebrate with her by drinking around the world. In Disney speak this means going to Epcot and getting a drink at each of the country's. As it also happens to be their food and wine festival so they have some carts set up for bonus countries as well. She managed to talk us, her grandparents, aunt, and one cousin into joining her for this expedition. I think we ended up having drinks and snacks from 15 different countries by the end of the night. The strangest snack was defiantly the onion cake from Germany. It was a fun way to celebrate and everyone had a good time. We rented a place for a week in Orlando going to the Disney Halloween party, various shows, and spent some time just hanging around the pool for a bit while getting to see Belle when she was not working. It was a good time. Unfortunately Max is still in school and could only join us for a long weekend but it was nice to have both of our kids together even if it was only for a couple days.As our sail boat is pretty close to Annapolis we decided to attend the annual sailboat show again this year as it's always fun to walk around looking at shinny new sailboats and gear for a few days. One surprise was that a Privilege 510 we looked at last year (and waited too long to make an offer on) was there on display. After getting to see that boat and about a dozen other cats we confirmed that we made a good choice and didn't have any regrets on buying our Xquisite. While there we were able to meet up with three other Xquisite owners to have lunch and chat about experiences and future plans with the boats. From what I can tell it seems most are pretty content sticking to the Bahamas and Caribbean with theirs. We seem to be the odd balls that want to sail around the world but then again three of the four we meet were fairly new to boating and big boats in general. So maybe they will get there and come join us ;).Friday, September 12, 2025
Back to school/Life update
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| Attending one of our former Scouts wedding this month |
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| Sending Annabelle off to Disney |
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| Max's last Court of Honor? |
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| Our favorite tennis player |
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| Max and the GF out sailing |
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| Amy & I with her parents cheering Max on at tennis |
Thursday, August 28, 2025
Finally got to use the boat
I'm happy to report that after only 3 working days the boat yard had figured out a way to fix the steering in my dinghy and even had it back hanging in the davits when we got back. I've never had a yard actually fix something that quickly without standing over them and even better it worked correctly the first time. Turns out the steering tube needed a better cleaning and more greese. I have to admit I'm pretty excited to have a working dinghy again. Hopefully it still works when we come back to the boat in September.
The weather on Wednesday was not great which let us do some provisioning, we tested the dinghy out, and talked to a number of characters around the boat yard looking for some good places to visit. We decided to stay close and would head up to the town of St Michaels for our first stop (about 38 miles by water). We left Thursday getting in around 5:30. There are four anchorages close to the town. After exporting the first two it appeared we might be a bit too large to drop a reasonable amount of chain and still have the ability to swing as the tides shifted so we headed out a bit and picked another one. I should note that we have not tried anchoring with this boat before and are new to using a bridle with all chain and a new style of anchor. Before leaving we checked the windless (the motor that drops and pulls up the anchor for those not in the know) and everything looked good. Unfortunately when we went to drop the anchor we found that we had pulled the anchor in a bit too far and it was now wedged in the anchor locker pretty good. I found some shoes and attempted jumping up and down on it a bit with no luck. Next step was to break out the hammer to beat on it a bit. After about 10 minutes I finally persuaded it to come free and we successfully dropped the anchor let out a bunch of chain, attached the bridle, and backed down on it. At this point it was time for a cold beer. Unfortunately after taking a better look at where the boat was settling in we didn't like our spot as we were fairly close to a buoy. So back to the bow I went with Amy at the helm I detached the bridle, pulled the anchor up and moved the boat about 200 feet over to what we thought might be a better spot. After going though the whole process again we once again sat down and when looking at the chart plotter realized it might not be as good as we hoped as we might be sitting on the bottom should the boat swing around when the tide goes out. So once again we muddled around getting the anchor up and redeploying it about 500 feet from the most recent location. This time after letting the boat settle in we still liked the spot. By this point we were hungry we made dinner and enjoyed the sun set. At which point we realized we were now dragging anchor. Why does everything bad always seem to happen in the dark? Luckily we were pretty far from the shore so were able to pull in the bridle then let out an additional 50ft of additional chain redeployed the bridle and backed down on it again. It seemed we were once again stuck pretty well. We were both a bit nervous if the anchor would hold so neither of us slept very well getting up to check on the anchor about every hour. Fortunately we didn't have much wind and didn't move that night.
The next day we headed into town. We found the public dinghy dock and set off to explore. We checked out the museum, the brewery, the candy store, got some fresh crab, and of course checked out one of the ice cream shops. St Michaels turned out to be the typical cute tourist town and also one of the location they used when filming the movie Wedding Crashers. One of the local hotels had a fleet of boats that would take their guests out for sunset sails every night.
We ended up anchored out there for three nights. We took the dinghy around and introduced ourselves to a few of the other folks in the anchorage on the other side of the channel. For some reason nine other boats came in and anchored there vs the one we selected (maybe the holding is better over there?) The anchor seemed to hold the boat well. When tide shifts happened we could see where the anchor drug a few feet before repositioning itself. For some reason on the last night we found ourselves dragging again. So we pulled everything up once again. After a couple try's we got the anchor to stick once again not getting much sleep worrying if we might be floating away again.
The next morning we decided to head over to check out the town of Oxford. We got a dock for the night. It should have been an easy dock, unfortunately the wind was blowing us away from the dock. Luckily one of the fellow boaters helped us with a line and I eventually got it backed in. Seems we still have a ways to go as far as coming up with a repeatable docking process we can accomplish with just the two of us.It seemed the town consisted of two restaurants, a bowling ally, and three ice cream shops. We found some dinner and of course had to sample the local ice cream. On our way back to the boat it started to rain and we found cover to wait out the storm only to realize that we had left all of the hatches open on the boat :(. So it was a quick run back to the boat to close up with the hope of not having a mattress that was completely soaked though. Turns out we had got lucky and actually had a waterproof matris pad on the bed so with a little clean up we had a good/dry nights sleep.
Unfortunately the next morning we did not fair to well getting off the dock. We had asked another fellow boater to hold a bow line for us which would have allowed me to pivot the back end of the boat out using one engine. He apparently didn't understand the ask and tossed us the line before the boat was ready. It was windy, we were now being blown into the dock and I had a large concrete dock about three feet from our stern. Somehow I managed to get the boat out without any damage but it was not as graceful as I planned. Once we were a few feet away from the dock I realized we didn't have any steering. Luckily I could steer the boat enough using just the engines until I figured out that Amy had engaged the auto pilot (which is hydraulic and bypasses the steering wheel when engaged) when plotting our course back to our home dock. During this process we also picked up what I suspect was a large bundle of sea grass in one of our props. This also made steering by the engines a bit more challenging as I had one engine running about twice as fast as the other just to get the same speed from both. This entire experience was a good reminder that its not just one mistake that generally gets folks in trouble its a series of unfortunate events or bad decisions that really gets you. Luckily in our case nothing major happened and we didn't panic but I could have easily gotten into some good trouble and damaged the boat or worse yet other folks boats around us if one more dumb thing had happened.Coming back into our home dock was again another humble reminder that we need more practice docking. Again the wind would be blowing us away from the dock. The goal should have been to get a bow line on then put the port engine in reverse to back the boat alongside of the dock. Unfortunately I can't see much on the starboard side of the boat due to the location of the helm and was a bit far from the dock not allowing Amy to get a line around the pole. Instead of backing out and trying again she tossed a line to someone on the boat next to us. Unfortunately the water was too high and he could not get off his boat to really help us and with the wind working against us the boat was too heavy to pull over. Eventually we got the boat in with help from the dock but it was not with any grace or elegance... once again :)
During the rain storm the previous night we had identified a leaking hatch. We drove into town found a replacement o-ring got some dinner at a fantastic local Italian place the cashier at the hardware store recommended then headed back to the boat for the night. The next day we packed up and headed back home for the next set of adventures.
Overall I think we both left this adventure feeling humbled. Nothing had gone really wrong. We sort of enjoyed our time onboard for the week but it was not a comfortable relaxed feeling. We were reminded this is a new boat for us and we need to come up with new processes for everything we do on board from pulling the sails out, to cooking, as well as anchoring and docking. The odd thing with this boat is that it's the easiest to maneuver boat we have ever had but I feel like I'm really struggling with docking for some reason. I don't recall learning to dock the tug being this difficult and its the least maneuverable boat we have had. This boat is big or at least really wide, visibility is somewhat limited, and both factors help make communication hard. We have headsets we use when docking on the tug. Once we bring those to this boat I think it will help a lot allowing who ever is at the bow to call out distances and where the boat needs to go. The other big thing we have been used to is having the 3rd person on board. The spry teenager that is willing to jump off the boat at hights we would not while running around to get things tied up quickly. I'm not sure how we are going to make up for that loss yet?














































